What your ex really feels

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Spirit reading for getting back together: What your ex really feels

Details Reviews What's in your reading

The things he said when you broke up.
Did he really mean them?

A woman alone by a café window on a rainy evening, looking at her phone, with an empty chair across from her

And these days,
what's on his mind?

Black-and-white photo of four men laughing over drinks at a street stall at night

Is he doing fine without you?

A man sitting on the edge of his bed in a dark room at night, staring down at his phone
Does he regret letting you go?
A man's hand holding an old couple's photo booth strip next to a glass
Does he ever think about you?
Yeonhwa looking up after reading both your details in a candlelit room

Let me tell you
what's really in his heart.

After a breakup,
you can never really know what he feels.

What you can see

  • He changed his profile picture
  • His stories are all him laughing with friends
  • Not a single message

What his Saju reveals (unlocked in your reading)

  • When he's alone, it all hits him at once
  • His regret leaks out in actions, not words
  • There's a reason he can't text first

So I'll read him for you, starting with
how he lets go of love.

Every text you sent each other,
the way you talked, your little habits.

How does he
remember all of it now?

What do you most want to know
about your ex?

I'll go deeper into the questions you pick in your reading.

Stories from the girls who went first

Reviews from Korean customers (translated)

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Okay, this Saju reading gave me actual chills haha

A man covering his mouth while looking at a laptop screen (face blurred)

8:26 pmyour face is sooo serious hahaha

Lil Troublemaker

the 'why did we break up' part nailed exactly how we fight, so I actually trust it now. wild8:33 pm

wait till January and if nothing happens

8:48 pmjust meet up in May then hahaha

Lil Troublemaker

That's honestly scary accurate8:48 pm

Lil Troublemaker

It's like it watched our whole relationship

How does it even know

Blog review ›

Review: an online Saju reading about an ex

Eun**

They kept asking how it knew exactly how they used to fight,
and even why they broke up!

They said the reading on why they split
matched their real situation exactly.

I'd watched their relationship up close,
so their reaction really stuck with me.

If it had only offered hopeful talk about getting back together, I don't think it would have hit this hard.

What landed more was the realistic take:
even if they got back together,
the same problems could come back.

Blog review ›

Review: my niece after splitting with her first love

Ma**

I can't say how accurate it is,

but after reading her report, my niece said she'd
hold off on reaching out right away
and spend time walking or working out with her mum instead.
That was a relief.

What stuck with me most was her saying
she'd stay positive
and take it one day at a time.

You've got this, sweetheart! Your auntie's cheering for you.

Blog review ›

Chances of reuniting after a long relationship ends

Na**

When my reading came, I took my time going through it.
It walked me back through everything, bit by bit.

We'd been together so long that the early days, when I first fell for him,
had gone a bit blurry.

Back when we were just getting to know each other,
we got close through endless conversations,
and it amazed me that it showed up in our Saju.

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Finally at peace after my Chosun Saju reading

De**

A cloudy sky as the sun sets behind the mountains

Hearing the reasons and the chances, one by one,
left me feeling lighter and clearer at the same time.

It even covered my worry that we'd break up again if we got back together,
so I could see what I need to work on,
whoever I end up with.

I was frustrated and just wanted a quick look at my Saju,
but it sorted out far more than I expected.

A man sitting alone in a café on a rainy night, lost in thought

Acting fine and actually being fine
aren't the same thing.

Yeonhwa laying both people's birth details side by side

His chart shows
which one he is.

Four readings
of what's really on his mind

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  1. 01

    How will he deal with the breakup?How he processes his feelings after a split

  2. 02

    How will he remember your relationship?The moments that stayed with him

  3. 03

    How does he show lingering feelings and regret?Whether he lets it show or swallows it

  4. 04

    What is he like when new love comes along?How fast he lets someone new in

POINT 01 · Sample reading

How will he deal with the breakup?

01How will he deal with the breakup?Chapter 1 · Sample

He comes across as bright and easy-going, but when his pride gets hurt, he never lets the pain show. So after the breakup, he's likely fine in front of his friends, then falls apart all at once when he's alone. Lately he may be throwing himself into work to bury it.

I'll tell you exactly what your Saju shows,
not what you want to hear.

POINT 02 · Sample reading

How will he remember your relationship?

What this reading looks at

  • How he remembers your time together
  • How he holds on to what he felt when you broke up
  • How those memories shift over time
Your real reading is built from both your birth details.

POINT 03 · Sample reading

How does he show lingering feelings and regret?

03How he shows lingering feelings and regretChapter 3 · Sample

The time you spent together may not fade easily, even after the breakup. So a familiar place or a single song might suddenly bring you to mind. But instead of saying he regrets it, he may let it slip in other ways, like changing his profile out of nowhere or checking in on you in a roundabout way.

This is just a sample. Your real reading will be done fresh from both your charts.

POINT 04 · Sample reading

What is he like when new love comes along?

What this reading looks at

  1. 01How fast he lets someone new in
  2. 02How he acts around a new love
  3. 03What he'll repeat in his next relationship
Your real reading looks at both your birth details.
What your ex really feels

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Full contents

From how he feels after the breakup
to how you can make peace with your own heart.

All in 6 chapters and 18 readings.

Yeonhwa sitting by candlelight on a rainy night
Chapter 1How will he deal with the breakup?
  1. 1.1His natural love style
  2. 1.2How he acts when a relationship ends
  3. 1.3How he processes his feelings after a breakup
Chapter 2How does he remember your relationship?
  1. 2.1Your relationship, as he remembers it
  2. 2.2The sweet moments and the painful ones he still carries
  3. 2.3When you're most likely to cross his mind
Chapter 3How does he show lingering feelings and regret?
  1. 3.1How he lets his lingering feelings show
  2. 3.2When regret is most likely to hit him
  3. 3.3What he can never bring himself to say
Chapter 4How is he doing right now?
  1. 4.1What's going on in his chart these days
  2. 4.2His days without you
  3. 4.3What's been weighing on his mind lately
Chapter 5What is he like when new love comes along?
  1. 5.1How fast he lets someone new in
  2. 5.2Who he becomes when he falls for someone new
  3. 5.3What he'll repeat in his next relationship
Chapter 6And what about you?
  1. 6.1The real reason you can't stop wondering about him
  2. 6.2How to finally put the question to rest
  3. 6.3Yeonhwa's last word for you

Breakup on your mind?
What do you most want to know right now?

  • Action guideYour last-chance reunion planWhat can you do to get back together?Take a look →
  • His mindsetWhat your ex really feelsFind out what your ex is thinking these days.You're reading this one
  • Your choiceRebound relationship SajuIs it your ex, or someone new?For when you can't decide between going back and moving on.Take a look →

Beyond the reading, answers to what's still on your mind

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We handle the tricky part: [true solar time]

Even if you were born at the same clock time,
where you were born still matters.
Chosun Saju uses your place and time of birth
to apply true solar time for a more precise reading.

The time on a clock is a shared standard for everyone in the same time zone. But the sun rises and sets at slightly different times depending on where you were born.

So we check your place and time of birth together. The closer your birth time is to the edge of a two-hour period, the more it matters to recheck your hour pillar with the corrected time.

True solar time vs standard time
BasisChosun SajuTrue solar timeStandard timeClock time
Time basisSolar time at your place of birthStandard time shown on the clock
Place of birthAdjusted for local time differencesOne shared standard across the time zone
ReadingHour pillar set from your adjusted birth timeHour pillar set from your recorded birth time

We look at where you were born,
right down to the moment you arrived.

Questions you might have

What will “What your ex really feels” tell me?

How he's taking the breakup, what memories your relationship left him with, how he shows regret and lingering feelings, and where his feelings are heading next. It's all covered in 6 chapters and 18 readings.

I don't want to get back together. Can I still get this reading?

Yes. This reading doesn't assume you want to reunite. It looks at how he's getting through the breakup and helps you make peace with your own feelings too.

Isn't this just the same breakup story for everyone?

Your reading is built around both your birth details and the questions you choose. Every breakup is different. The way your relationship worked and how each of you shows feelings change what the reading focuses on.

Do I need his details?

Yes. We need his date of birth to read his personality and your relationship together. It's fine if you don't know his time of birth.

What if I don't know the time of birth?

That's fine. Just choose ‘I don’t know my birth time’ when you enter your details. Knowing the time of birth helps make the reading more detailed.

Can it tell me exactly what he's thinking?

Saju can't confirm his thoughts directly. Based on his chart and the way your relationship has played out, we read what he's most likely feeling.

Can I still get a reading if he's seeing someone new?

Yes. This reading doesn't claim to know whether he's dating again. It looks at how he processes his feelings after a breakup and how open he tends to be to someone new.

How is this different from other reunion readings?

‘The Last-Chance Reunion Plan’ covers what to say and do to win him back. This reading covers how he feels after the breakup. ‘Rebound relationship Saju’ helps you choose between your ex and someone new.

How long until my reading is ready?

Your reading is ready in about 10 minutes once you've paid and entered your details.

Where do I find my reading?

We’ll email you your reading. You can also find it in [My readings].

Can I read it again later?

Yes. It's yours to keep, free, forever.
Read it again anytime in [My readings].

How do follow-up questions work?

Still have questions after reading? Ask through [Ask a follow-up] in your reading or [Saju Q&A] on our homepage. We'll answer your first question at no extra cost.

Don't stay up all night
guessing on your own.

Yeonhwa, the Shaman Unnie, smiling with her chin in her hand in a candlelit shrine

Once you understand him,
you can finally make peace with it.

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